Practical Sex Advice For Couples

Cindy stole some of my thunder with this post, but I want to share something that both of us agree has tremendously helped our relationship, our passion, and our sex life, as well as has reduced tensions, made us happier and more playful in our marriage and in how we interact with each other.

If you these two things and put effort into it, we know you will see more spark between you and your spouse or significant other.

And when I tell you these things, you’ll probably think «Why didn’t I think of that?».

But here goes:

#1 Practical Sex Advice For Couples – Start And End Your Day Together

There is something special about spending the early morning with Cindy and then making sure we go to bed together.   We put in the effort to be together as soon as both of us are awake, and we rarely go to bed without the other one.
Obviously there are some circumstances that make this more difficult, such as spouses that work different shifts.

Here are some things we do and some other things that may help get your creative (and other) juices flowing in how to make this happen:

  • –  If you shower in the morning, shower with your spouse.   If you don’t shower in the morning, but your spouse does, shower with them anyways.
  • –  Ditto for the evening.
  • –  Not every night is a sex night, not even in our household.   But the few nights a week that are not, we still end our day together.   Usually we will give each other massages, watch television to unwind the day, or just hold each other.   But we make sure we have physical contact each night.

Yes, this may take time and effort.   But if you love your spouse, want them to be fulfilled (men, especially pay attention here), and want to have some great sensual moments, make sure to do this.

Cindy and I shower together more mornings than not.   Its a sensual moment that we spend together each morning.

I sometimes work until late in the evening, but she tries to stay awake for me.   She may already be in bed, but she stays awake.
And here is the second, most powerful of the tips, in my opinion:

#2 Practical Sex Advice For Couples – Kiss Passionately Every Day

I read an article that popped up on Yahoo! many months ago that talked about kissing every day.   The article did not just say a peck, though.   It said that couples should kiss for at least 10 seconds each kiss once a day.

When I told her this, she kind of chuckled.   And the first few times we tried to do this, it was more of a game and a joke and nothing serious…. so we did not keep it going.

But here recently, somewhat subconsciously, we started doing it again.   In fact, when we shower in the morning, we kiss multiple times very passionately, most times for more than 10 seconds.   Of course, being in the shower together and kissing for that long will get a response out of me (and it will her at night), so sometimes I go through the day excited about getting home, getting the kids to bed, and getting some time alone with her.

Since we have started doing this, we have noticed a lot of things about our relationship:

We fight less. We have less tension no matter the situation. We tend to be more playful during the day. We tend to kiss more during the day, whenever we see each other. We have had more sex.   A LOT more sex. We smile more. We feel less stressed.

All of these things build on each other.   We owe it all to kissing and being passionate first thing in the morning and last thing in the evening.

So there are two practical sex advice tips for you and your spouse.   We have noticed tremendous change in our lives from doing it, and we hope you will too!
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